Wednesday, March 26, 2025

somebody made a imply “self-evaluation” for my boss, and he or she’s punishing us all — Ask a Supervisor


It’s “the place are you now?” month at Ask a Supervisor, and all December I’m operating updates from individuals who had their letters right here answered previously.

So much has occurred since I final wrote.

First, I’d prefer to make clear some particulars. I didn’t write the self-evaluation, and on the time of the letter, I didn’t even know who had written it. I learn it as a result of it was caught on a whiteboard that I wanted to make use of throughout a gathering, and the individual serving to me transfer the whiteboard learn it too. We threw it away afterward. I do know that the malicious self-evaluation was additionally posted on the bulletin board, on the kitchen wall, and combined in with different paperwork. It turned in style partly as a result of Rhonda isn’t well-liked on the firm and partly as a result of it was written in a humorous fashion. So even those that didn’t learn it immediately heard quotes from individuals who had.

One commentator mentioned that this faux analysis was distracting from the true challenge, and also you mentioned Rhonda was a horrible supervisor and prone to proceed doing terrible issues sooner or later. You have been each proper.

A few of us went to HR to query why versatile hours have been not accessible, and Rhonda claimed it was all a misunderstanding. She mentioned she solely steered stricter hours and that we weren’t required to observe them. I requested HR if it was potential to evaluation my analysis as a result of I disagreed with a few of Rhonda’s factors, and I wasn’t the one one. To say that Rhonda didn’t like this could be an understatement.

The extent of micromanagement after that reached absurd ranges. She would interrupt folks at random occasions, and we needed to give her an entire report of all the things we’d accomplished for the reason that final time she requested. This occurred a number of occasions a day, and Rhonda anticipated prolonged or detailed responses, or she would interrupt you time and again. She additionally replied to emails vaguely, forcing you to speak to her in individual for a correct reply.

Rhonda was additionally decided accountable somebody for the letter. She interrogated all of us in teams and individually about it. She tried to determine which teams of individuals usually went out collectively after work and concluded {that a} group who usually drank collectively after hours was accountable. She advised everybody that she knew who the culprits have been, and so did we, and that the cover-up was solely making issues worse. Issues escalated between her and this group. Rhonda claimed they intentionally scratched her automobile; the group mentioned she was stalking them throughout lunch breaks. I’m undecided how a lot of this made it to HR — I attempted to remain distant from all of the chaos.

Thankfully, it lasted just a few months. One of many workers Rhonda was harassing because the supposed wrongdoer missed an essential deadline on a venture. Rhonda didn’t discover till it was too late. We misplaced the shopper, and when Rhonda tried to place all of the blame on the worker, she ended up being penalized herself for not realizing there had been no progress on the venture for a big period of time. She and the worker had a really public argument throughout which the writer of the letter was revealed (and it wasn’t the worker concerned within the argument). Voices have been raised, insults have been exchanged, and each of them have been escorted to HR and by no means got here again.

The writer of the self-evaluation claimed to have acquired a warning from HR and a praise for his or her writing expertise. I can’t say if that’s true, however I discover it amusing to assume so.

HR didn’t permit the evaluations to be redone, citing that there was nobody accessible to redo them. This accelerated my job search, and I’m pleased to say that I lately discovered a brand new job and have left all of the drama from that firm behind.

I thanks and the readers for the recommendation.

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